Anonymous wrote:
sex and lust are two differt things. most young people can not tell the difference between them. How can you differ between the two? Is it possible for a young man to love someone without even the thought of lust in their mind?

We live in a culture that bombards us daily with images designed to draw out lustful thoughts and desires. From Playboy and MTV to NBC and CBS, today’s mainstream media is trying to tell us that lust and love are the same. The trouble with separating the two comes directly out of a culture that makes no such distinction.

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Proverbs 18:24 - “A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly, and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.”

The “real” world says relationships and friendships are give and take. You fulfill some sort of need in my life and in return I will do the same for you. The problem with this scenario is that when I am incapable of providing what you need, you are left with unfulfilled expectations. Unfulfilled expectations leave a person feeling disappointed or betrayed.

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Are you hiding something? Are you scared someone you love is going to find out your dark secret? You don’t know who to trust with your dirty laundry, but you can’t deal with it all alone. What Up Man? was created for guys like you, hundred and thousands of guys like you, who need help with life and don’t know where to go.

Our purpose is to give sound, Biblical advice for life’s dirty laundry. If you’ve wanted to talk to someone for a long time, the wait is over. Use the “Write To Us” at the top of the page and submit a question with your name or write anonymously. We will respond either by e-mail or post on the website. You will remain totally anonymous, and will ultimately help other guys break out of the hard ego shells and start talking about what they’ve been hiding as well.

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